35 岁倦怠：生理、现实、心理的三重夹击
最近有段时间，我明显感觉到一种说不清的疲惫：游戏不想打，剧不想追，朋友聚会懒得去，连以前热衷钻研的新技术也提不起劲。不是抑郁，不是矫情，就是觉得——什么都没意思。 后来仔细想了想，这种状态其实不是突如其来的，而是到了 35 岁这个节点，生理、现实、心理三层压力叠加之后的必然结果。更讽刺的是，企业嘴里...
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2026
Burnout at 35: The Triple Squeeze of Body, Reality, and Mind
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The No-Way-Out and the Clear Eyes of a Bottom-Tier Life
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Burnout at 35: The Triple Squeeze of Body, Reality, and Mind
For a stretch recently I’ve been clearly aware of a fatigue I can’t quite name: I don’t want to play games, don’t want to follow any shows, can’t be b...
Burnout at 35: The Triple Squeeze of Body, Reality, and Mind
For a stretch recently I’ve been clearly aware of a fatigue I can’t quite name: I don’t want to play games, don’t want to follow any shows, can’t be b...
The Chaos of Small and Mid-Size Company Hiring: Botched Terminology, Sloppy Panel Interviews, Empty Salary Promises — Job Hunting as a 35+ Tech Worker Is Full of Helplessness
Opening a recruiting app and applying for tech roles was meant to be about finding a solid professional home, but my recent string of job-hunting expe...
The Chaos of Small and Mid-Size Company Hiring: Botched Terminology, Sloppy Panel Interviews, Empty Salary Promises — Job Hunting as a 35+ Tech Worker Is Full of Helplessness
Opening a recruiting app and applying for tech roles was meant to be about finding a solid professional home, but my recent string of job-hunting expe...
The No-Way-Out and the Clear Eyes of a Bottom-Tier Life
I. The Middle-Aged Man Discarded by a Precision SystemUnemployed for a full six months. Hangzhou’s job market has completely rotted away. I thought th...