活不下去了，想去外包，建议你先看看我的外包工体验再说
背景：15年工作经验，之前一直都是正职员工，在网易、有赞等大公司工作多年，现35岁被裁，迫于生存压力，现入职某外包企业，我之前录过多期视频劝大家有的选千万不要选外包，除非没饭吃了，很多人说我何不食肉糜，曾经也有阿里云的外包找我，也面试通过了，说实话，当时根本看不上，因为我知道外包很坑，网上铺天盖地...
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